Woo a lady tuner, and a photographer too
(BCS go post picture of said sister.
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As for the diffuser being too studio, What I'd do is:
-Make a new layer on top of the diffuser, and brush some colors from the floor and then set the layer to multiply.
-If that fails then maybe try the burn tool.
Also for a bit of extra atmosphere you can try to use the photo filters, or burn the corners of the background.
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